
Pete was also kind enough to put up a post for me. I'm interested in talking to families for my book, and I asked my colleagues who are active with NAMI if any of the NAMI families might be willing to chat with me. Pete's post resulted in calls from all over the country. I heard from several parents with children who have been terribly ill, in and out of hospitals and jails, stories filled with heartache. One woman spoke at length about her son who has been ill for decades, and then mentioned that she'd also committed her daughter for a post-partum psychosis. She thought the daughter was still angry about it, but when she told the daughter she was going to talk to me about committing others, the daughter said, "I hope she's in favor of it," and this was the first she realized that the daughter was glad she'd been forced to get treatment. The son is still struggling, the daughter is doing well, working and raising her children. One woman called to tell me her distress about being committed, and as we talked for a while, I told her I didn't think she'd actually been committed as there had not been any court hearing. By the time we hung up, she told me she felt better and maybe it was time to let go of some of her anger. Another woman who was distressed about having been hospitalized was upset because she felt the doctors should have been more aggressive about looking for physical reasons for her psychosis, and they missed her exposure to toxic occupational chemicals. One woman told me of her child's struggles with illness and treatment, and about how helpful Assisted Outpatient Treatment had been in keeping her well. At some point the patient had come to realize how much better she felt without her delusions and hallucinations and now she gets treatment willingly. Finally, a man called to tell me about his struggles with schizophrenia. He was hospitalized once decades ago, has never missed a dose of medication, and has been able to enjoy a full life, but his brother, who also has schizophrenia has resisted treatment and has been in and out of the hospital (he guessed 40 times), jail, and has lived on the streets, and never able to work.
It's been helpful to me to hear these stories, they add to what I know from my own experiences, and to the stories that our readers have been writing in our comment sections for years. I'll ask that if your story is different than those I described, that you respect that someone else might have had a different experience than yours and that you not write in to criticize or question the story that someone else relayed. I only spoke to these people for a little while, so I don't know every nuance of their care, but what I do know is that some people found involuntary treatment to be helpful for themselves or their family members, and some did not.